tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078425367485991464.post37660737665309654..comments2011-08-17T13:52:59.904-07:00Meadow Linnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06984864173893125945noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078425367485991464.post-62732143129905899622011-08-17T13:52:59.904-07:002011-08-17T13:52:59.904-07:00Wonderful story. One of my friends says he knows this woman who used to get obsessed every time she had a new car, to park far, not get dinged, etc. It was taking over her life--so now whenever my friend's friend gets a new car, she ceremoniously takes this tiny little hammer (probably like the jewelers use) and hits the side of her car. Then she doesn't worry any more about what might happen (which is the other, future oriented, side of the "if only it didn't happen" past musing...) So consider your new car initiated so you no longer have to worry about what might happen as the first mishap for your car!Suehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16689391855366931022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8078425367485991464.post-64876729307788930792011-08-16T15:04:44.250-07:002011-08-16T15:04:44.250-07:00Yes, the if only trap - I love your plan to make it "what now" - thanks for posting your thoughts - very inspiring.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com