I just bought my first Christmas tree.My mom likes to get the family Christmas tree the day after Thanksgiving. For years I’ve helped her choose the tree and decorate it. We listen to Christmas music and as we unwrap each ornament, we reminisce. As we carefully place the ornaments on the tree, we laugh about my former attempts to prove the existence of Santa Claus and about how one year I left him vitamin C and vegetables instead of cookies. The family tree has always felt like my tree, and so I never bothered to get one for my own home.
I am now an adult.
I am now an adult.
I am extremely practical, but at the same time I’m a dreamer. Mix the two together and what do you get? No Christmas tree. The practical part of me believed a tree for myself wasn’t necessary since I’m never in my own home for Christmas and my apartments have always been so small. On the flipside, the dreamer part of me wanted to wait to share this with someone special. Years later when my children are grown, I wanted to be able to unwrap ornaments with them and say, “This is from the first tree that Dad and I ever had."
But this year I said sayonara to the practical me and to the dreamer me and got myself a Christmas tree. It’s big enough to make a statement but small enough that it still fits in my tiny living room. I love everything about the holidays. Why deny myself the nighttime glow of a tree and the feeling of warmth and magic? My cats had a blast attacking the tree…and the lights…and the ornaments, and my dog wanted to drink the water and attack the cats attacking the tree. I’m starting to realize that this memory will not preclude me from making new memories and creating new traditions when I have a family of my own.
Wanting the Christmas spirit to continue to fill me, I decided to decorate the outside of my house as well. When it glows in the evening, I feel this happy feeling flow through me. It’s beautiful, and I created this for myself!
What experiences or items have you been saving either because they didn’t seem practical or because you were waiting for the right people or the right time? Sometimes saving things for special occasions makes them that much more special, but sometimes it just makes them dusty. My parents recently decided to drink some wine from their “reserve” collection, but when they opened the bottles, they realized that they’d waited too long and the wine had gone off. As a child I saved my Easter candy so long that it was stale by the time I decided to try it. What are you waiting to do? What if that time never comes?
Go for it!
Rich and Decadent Minty Holiday Cocoa
I made a batch of this to drink while I was decorating my tree, even though it was 70 degrees outside. It’s not the holidays without a steaming mug of cocoa and Christmas carols playing in the background.
1 1/2 cups (12 oz) whole milk, almond, soy, or rice milk
3 Tbs. unsweetened cocoa powder
2 Tbs. sugar
pinch of salt
1 tsp. coffee liqueur (just a hint of coffee liqueur makes the cocoa extra chocolatey)
1/4 tsp. peppermint extract
Whisk the milk, cocoa powder, and sugar together in a small saucepan over low heat until steaming. Remove from heat and add the coffee liqueur and peppermint extract. Divide between two small mugs and enjoy. This cocoa is very thick and rich. A little bit goes a long way toward spreading holiday cheer.