Imagine that you could do anything, go anywhere, and have anything you desired. What would you do, where would you go, and what would you get?
The other night during a family dinner, my mom, dad, and I decided to each start making a list of our 100 biggest dreams, imagining that money were no object. I was surprised to discover how many of the items on my list I could actually make happen with a bit of planning and ingenuity. It turns out that in many cases, the thing that’s stopping me from making certain dreams a reality isn’t money or time (I’m a good saver, a great bargain hunter, and have a somewhat flexible work schedule); instead, it’s the fact that I don’t know what my life will be like a few years from now.
I frequently find myself bumping up against this wall. It’s the “I-don’t-know-if-I-should-make-plans-because-what-if” conundrum. For instance, one of the things on my list is going to the Olympic Opening Ceremonies and attending some of the sporting events. Although the tickets to these events come at a steep premium, I probably could figure out a way to make some—if not all—of the dream a reality. However, attendance at the Olympics is not like a vacation you can plan a few months in advance; it can take years to secure tickets, flights, and accommodations. There’s this nagging voice in my head that says, “You don’t know what your life will be like then…“What if you’re married, and you don’t have a ticket for your husband? What if you have a baby and can’t travel?” What if… What if… blah… blah…
|Enjoying a cuddle with a friend's baby girl|
If I constantly make decisions based on a possible future, I’m not only denying myself joy, but also I’m anchoring the idea in my subconscious that future dreams, such as getting married and having children, preclude others from coming to fruition. When we make plans for the person we are today and live in the moment, we open doors for more joy, both in the present and in the future. Imagine if I had made plans to attend the Olympics and then found myself as the nursing mother of triplets with a job that didn’t allow for time off. I’d either find a way to go to the Olympics, or I wouldn’t. But why put off the possibility of joy simply because I think a potential future might be at odds with the plans I make today?
What are your biggest dreams? What’s keeping you from pursuing them? What would you gain by living in the present and making plans for who you are now? How would your life be different?
|Soar like an eagle!|
|My cat thought these looked so tasty she took a bite after the photo was taken|
In general, I’m not a “dessert-first” kind of woman. I actually relish the anticipation and build up to the evening meal’s finale. However, in honor of not postponing joy, I’ve been enjoying this banana ice pop at every chance I get. On a hot August day it’s a delicious (and healthy) way to feed that afternoon craving. And as a smoothie, it makes a tasty breakfast. Plus, if you’re like me and always seem to have a pile of ripe bananas in your freezer, this is a great way to use them. (Although I haven’t tried, I imagine it would work just as well with fresh bananas.)
|Banana Almond Ice Pop|
2 frozen bananas
¼ cup raw almonds
¾ tsp. almond extract
1 tsp. agave (omit if your bananas are really ripe)
1 ½ cups almond milk, original flavor
Combine all ingredients in a blender and process until smooth. Pour into an ice pop mold and freeze until firm. Or, enjoy as a smoothie.