Circles symbolize wholeness, connection, and life; however, sometimes a circle needs to be broken so that a new circle can grow into being. For instance, when identical twins are formed, one egg breaks into two equal parts. The fissure is necessary for both to thrive.
I spent the few days leading up to Christmas with my parents in San Francisco. It’s become one of our yearly holiday traditions. We eat at nice restaurants, admire the lights in Union Square, and huff and puff our way up every hill we can find.
This year, in the dark of night on the shortest day of the year, we decided to walk the outdoor labyrinth at Grace Cathedral. Many consider the winter Solstice to be one of the holiest days of the year, a time when the veil between this realm and that of the Divine is the thinnest. It’s a powerful time to focus on gratitude for the past year and ask for guidance for the year to come.
As usual, when making a wish for my future, my focus is on getting married and having children. As I followed the serpentine path of the labyrinth, I had a vision of a man and three young children waiting for me at the end. They felt so real that I could see their smiles and hear their mirthful chatter.
Instead of including a man in our circle, I needed step away from the tight circle I’d created with my parents and join the man and the children waiting near the labyrinth. So, while holding my parents’ hands, I imagined myself releasing their hands and rejoining the palms of my mom and dad together. They would in effect be creating their own circle. I then pictured myself forming a circle with my future husband and children.
As 2013 is beginning, I’ve been thinking about what I want for the coming year and how I’m going to make it happen. No matter how much I say I want a family, at this point, I haven’t really made room for it because the bond I have within my current circle is so strong that it would be difficult to penetrate. Just like with the example of the twins, letting go and forming a new circle doesn't diminish the first, it just makes a second one that’s equally strong.
Are there things in your life that you want but can’t seem to reach? Consider changing your approach. As we step into this New Year, spend time opening your heart and being willing to receive guidance from above. If it hadn’t been for the time I spent quietly walking the labyrinth, I wouldn’t have had this powerful realization.
I wish you a new year filled with joy, love, happiness, and of course…good food!
Egg in a Nest
Butter or Earth Balance
Using a sharp knife cut a circle in the center of each piece of bread. Carefully butter both sides of the bread. Do the same with the circle that you’ve removed from the bread—when it’s pan-fried it’s one of the tastiest bits. Melt a bit of butter in a skillet over medium heat. Put the bread in the skillet. When the underside is golden brown, turn it over and crack an egg into the hole (circle). When the bottom half of the egg is cooked, flip the bread, careful not to break the yolk. Continue to cook until the egg white is set and the yolk is cooked to your preference. As you enjoy this childhood favorite, consider thinking about the many circles and cycles in your life.
That's such a powerful realisation Meadow! Thank-you for sharing, I can relate in many ways. Here's to the many circles of life and birthing our very own family circles xoReplyDelete
a great reminder regarding leaving room for something or someone to penetrate the circle. I thought I had made space (time) by clearing out some activities to allow something else to flourish and realize I have only filled the time with other "stuff", stuff that keeps me from realizing my goals. So, more letting go.... Thank you! ~Mary
Happy New Year to you!
Wishing sincerely that your fondest wish of love and family will find its seed in 2013.
What a beautiful way to envision desires. There is the big labyrinth of existance and ourselves in the big scheme.
I am having a hard time knowing what to do for work.A long story but currently I am "working" via volunteering with much joy. Volunteer work is perhaps attacking the questions of my role in society & where I want to go.
Wishing you joy.
Barb, I wish you so much joy and happiness in 2013!! Perhaps your direction will become more clear through your volunteer work. I'm sending you huge hugs!Delete
We have never met but I think of you often and send my love and prayers to you and your family to be.ReplyDelete
I love this recipe and make it often for my kids. I last made it a year or so ago. Time to break out my gluten-free bread mixes and get to cooking.
I am really enjoying your cookbook and have been talking to my kitchen angel a lot lately.
My very good friend, whom I gifted your cookbook for x-mas, is making the blue cheese walnut salad tonight. I already made some gratitude granola, sans oats. I love it, I have been sprinkling it on my yogurt. <3 Danielle
Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm so delighted to hear that you're enjoying the Gratitude Granola. Have you considered trying it with certified gluten free oats? Here's to an awesome 2013!Delete